Because we all deserve deep intimate connection
Value-based treatment for sexual and relationship difficulties
About Dave
Hello, I am Dave Pitcher. Welcome to my site. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and Certified Sex Therapist (CST) serving the needs of individuals and couples in Utah and Idaho. I work out of an office in Riverton, Utah (Northern Utah) and meet clients virtually throughout Utah and Idaho. My goal is to support you in finding and creating fulfilling relationships and a sexual life that you deserve. You may come to this site feeling discouraged, stuck, and uncertain. I hope to provide information and services to bring new energy, passion, and value to your life and relationships.
“Intimacy is being seen and known as the person you truly are” — Amy Bloom
My Services
I specialize in working with sexuality and relationship issues. My clinical services include individual and couples therapy. I also offer various self-help resources, including articles, handouts, and my favorite books and podcasts. I provide supervision, consultation, and training for counseling professionals. In the community, I can present on a variety of topics. I love meeting new people, hearing life stories, and finding areas for collaboration. Regardless of your sexual health needs, I hope to provide something helpful and inspiring to assist in supercharging your relationships and strengthening your sexual health.
FAQs
General
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Some issues can be addressed with self-help resources, new or increased use of coping strategies, and support from loved ones. Some problems could benefit from working with a professional. Click on “DO I NEED THERAPY?” to read more about making this important decision.
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Choosing the right resources to address your relationships and sexuality struggles is an important consideration. Some would benefit from working on themselves individually before working on their relationship. Also, if you are in crisis, it may not be the best time to work on emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy. Click on “WHAT SERVICES ARE RIGHT FOR ME?” for information on where to start.
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Therapy involves focused conversations and problem-solving. My goal as a therapist is not to be your “expert” but to bring specialized skills and expertise to your dilemma.
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Sex Therapy starts with an understanding of your history. From here, we address patterns of emotions, thoughts, and behaviors, gathering clues about where you may be getting stuck. More than problems and dysfunction, a sex therapist focuses on solutions and sexual health. Click on “WHAT IS SEX THERAPY? ”to read more about what therapists do and what they do not do.
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I have worked with issues around pornography use and other unwanted patterns of sexual behaviors more than any other clinical issue. Over the last 20 years of practice, I have found a unique style of addressing these issues that is effective, evidence-based, and non-shaming. Click on “SEX & PORNOGRAPHY” to learn more.
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I enjoy working with individuals and/or couples. Individual work may focus on one’s history, vulnerabilities, and personal sexuality. Couples work can focus on communication, attachment, and assignments to achieve a deep, intimate connection. For more information, click on my article “What Services are Right for Me?”
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More important than what you do in your relationships and sexuality is understanding the why. I start with values. Couples may choose to address spiritual or religious issues. Whether you consider yourself religious, spiritual, or far from it, I will support you. Click here for my section on “SEX & SPIRITUALITY”.
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As you consider what you are looking for in a therapist, let me share what I look for and appreciate in a client. I like clients who are motivated to put in the time that is needed. I appreciate curiosity, commitment, and consistency. I enjoy working with those who are motivated to learn and grow and open to new perspectives.
